I'm really conflicted by the whole situation. As I've stated, I want AD to be a Ram his entire career. I heard where one of his teammates indicated this whole thing is eating at him. Why? Is it because he feels the offer is not good enough? Does he want to be at TC, but his agent is telling to hold out because they hold the cards in this situation? Was his teammate trying to downplay AD's anger with the Rams FO? I honestly can't understand what the heck is going on. I believe the Rams will act in good faith and continue negotiations if AD shows up. If he really wants to be with the team, he needs to show up. Does he deserve a big contract... yes.
At this point, the other guys are getting the reps and developing chemistry in the new defense. And when/if he returns, and I really fear this, runs a greater risk of getting injured because he isn't in 'football" shape. By this I mean he's had no contact in pads plus his mental preparation. I know he's working out and staying in shape, but it's not the same as being in up-tempo contact drills, etc. IMO, if he holds out through the entire preseason, he probably won't be ready to go full-time until probably the 3rd to 4th week. Last thing, I know the team is holding this issue tightly within the confines of the locker room, but it has to be wearing on them and becoming a larger distraction as each day passes without him.
IMO, it seems someone's word and a handshake holds no credibility in today's world, which is why I'm probably so naive regarding this whole situation.