But is it really? Everybody's life is different but in today's world, one doesn't have to leave the house in order to get anything and everything the want or even need. 30 years ago that wasn't the case, obviously. Quarantining oneself has never been as easy as it is right now. Stay home. Protect yourself.
Then there is the workplace which unfortunately puts one under the umbrella of relying on safety protocols that you can't control. I can only speak for my situation which is not ideal. I work in a large building with 100 coworkers and the public.
Those who work from home are in full control. Office/cubicle environments allow for low exposure and some control.
It all comes down to choice(when on your own time) and forced interactions and what one can control when on the clock earning a living. If you fear for your own personal safety, stay home. Don't go to restaurants, don't go to Walmart, stay away from people.
Yeah, i take more issue with the guy who's masked up sitting at home shaming the 20 somethings who are at the bar unmasked and partying. It's irresponsible behavior to be sure, but ultimately it's about adults making decisions.
I have little faith in society as it is Mack, and i realize that we are living among a large amount of stupid people in this country...but in terms of protecting ones self in this pandemic i really wish adults would stop blaming other adults. Control what you can control which, it seems to me is about 90% of your environment every day.
I already do that, Mojo.
However, I'm in a multigenerational household with 3 adult kids living at home. One is moving out right now, but I'll still have my wife who's looking for work and likely to find some shortly, my oldest son who works in a grocery store, his fiancée who works in a daycare center, her daughter who's about to enter Kindergarten and my youngest who works in a department store.
That's a whole lot of bringing home other people's germs, ESPECIALLY because in Florida, they're gonna open up schools on time and without restrictions. Remember being a parent of someone in elementary school? I had several serious health run ins and a VERY nearly fatal pneumonia from germs kids brought home from school. There are few worse places for germ aggregation and dissemination than an elementary school.
Young adults seem very susceptible to carrying the disease, but remain asymptomatic and recover easily. For this YOLO crowd, it seems like a non-starter. Very little price for ignorance.
Problem is that they are the vector for everything.
Thus, even if I lived alone and had everything delivered, I could still get it, but with virtually all of the family HAVING to go out for work, I'm reliant on the protocols we've put in place to protect..well, mostly me and the new baby when they come sometime around Christmas.
I'm reminded of a story I learned in church:
Two people were given a moment to explore the after life. One was sent to Hell, the other, Heaven.
The man who got back from Hell said, "it was horrible. We were chained to tables with the most delicious foods, but couldn't reach them. We were given forks and spoons, but the handles were too long to serve ourselves and we were just tortured because we couldn't feed ourselves."
The man who got back from Heaven said, "it was wonderful. We were attached to tables with the most delicious foods. We were given forks and spoons with handles long enough so that we could feed one another and everyone had everything they wanted and it was awesome."
What made it Heaven or Hell wasn't the location or the circumstances, but how we treated one another in those circumstances.
This virus could have been nearly over by now if we'd just loved and cared for one another enough to do a few basic things, washing our hands often and not touching our faces was to protect ourselves and wearing masks to protect others.
The masks are to protect others. The masks are to protect others. That point keeps getting missed so I'm repeating it like those 800 numbers in late night infomercials so that maybe it'll stick for the few who keep arguing against their efficacy in personal protection. They aren't for YOUR personal protection. The masks are to protect others.
This all went south because a whole lot of people chose to be selfish and inhumane rather than selfless and humane.
Having nearly died twice, once to a super bad bout of pneumonia, I've had to "make my peace" before and that's unnerving enough. The idea of going out like COVID people do... alone...sedated...on a machine...while I slowly suffocate to death over a period of weeks...
Well, I'd like to not go out like that.
Unfortunately, it's not really up to me. It's gonna be up to other Floridians who've pretty much decided to just say F it and move on even as we have the most new cases in the world right now.
That's unsettling. I'm in what I hope is the middle of a storybook romance with my wife of 30 years and we only just now have grandchildren. My kids are starting their own lives and the Rams are good and fun to watch.
I just wanna see it through is all. Seems like an easy ask, but maybe it's not? I dunno.