Okay, briefly on AP.
He did a horrible thing. It was corporal punishment run amok. It was how he was raised and bad parenting can be like bad DNA... Passed on from generation to generation. But unlike bad DNA, AP has the chance to learn that what he did was wrong...NOT because there are some people who disagree with corporal punishment, but because he hurt his child.
I was encouraged to see his reactions after his first round of counseling. It seemed to me that he understood that the parenting dynamic between him and his kids would have to change and he seemed glad for that because after truly being confronted be his actions (the simple question of "how would you feel if someone ELSE did this to your children?" Comes to mind) he really seemed to get it that he had a lot to UNLEARN. I dunno if he saw what Cris Carter had to say about his situation, AP seems to be embracing that he HAS to change for him and his kids.
I don't see him like I see DV offenders. I see AP as someone who did something bad, but has every incentive both inside and outside of football to turn that event into a learning experience, the greatest of which are the love and trust of his kids whom I see that he does love very much.
Had he been nonchalant about this or was still belligerent about how he did nothing wrong, I would feel very differently about him and his situation.
As it stands now, though, I would have him on my team, I would root for him and from a pure football perspective, he would put us at a whole 'nother level. You don't think that OL in Minny was that awesome, do you???