The team also has a right to not trade him. They can simply choose not to and that will be that.
Oh believe me, I'm not saying the Texans are the model org for standing their ground on this. Both sides are acting like children, but I tend to lean toward the team more than a single player.
Deshaun knew damn well he was signing onto a team that had Cal and the Jesus Easterby tag team, and at the time expected to be coached by BOB.
The Rams and Texans situations are different. One has a great team with a QB that hit his ceiling, the other finished 4-12 and fired their coach after 4 games (deserved BTW). Ideally, Deshaun is part of the re-build because draft picks aren't a guarantee.
How can one team say fuck it, lets go get a QB (Rams or whoever does end up trading for Deshaun) and the other who gets laughed at expect by trading their lone asset into 22 year olds that may end up out of the league in 2 years?
Tough noogies man. It would be like my boss asking me my thoughts on a new hire, then proceeding to not hire them or bring in someone they wanted, and not take my advise. And yes this is a relevant example because I'm the senior most member in our work group after my boss of course. Ha.
Ultimately, GM and HC moves are made by the FO. Not a player. If you take a step back, a FO looks through the candidates and hires who they see fit. That's exactly how they did with Nick Caserio, and he was the one to identify a HC, which he did. It's exactly how a team should operate. But no, because people are hellbent on Deshauns feelers getting hurt he wasn't included and didn't hire Eric B., it's suddenly a circus. Not saying it isn't one, but I don't believe it's that much of a cluster. I'm just a casual fan of that team, so it's easier to see it from a different perspective.