Except of course Stranger you refer to those who disagree as being "programmed" , which is no less a conversational "weapon"
You've made this point before and it's a good one. So, let me address it.
I agree that we are all programmed. What I have been hoping to highlight is ones self-awareness of this programming, and ones own ability to step outside of it, see it, and understand it.
What's really the issue is the breadth and width of ones ability to perceive reality. When I refer to being "programmed", I'm really trying to say that someone's perception of reality is narrowly defined, typically by the major media and institutionalized education. To step outside of that narrow field of programming takes work, openness and risk of social condemnation.
What's happening, especially with the use of loaded terms such as "Conspiracy Theorist", is that people who consistently step outside of narrow fields of agreed-upon perception are labelled. It's definitely a negative label, meant to shut down conversation & awareness of anything unsupported by the mainstream.
On the other hand, referring to someone as being programmed is an effort to initiate self-reflection and awareness... what does he mean by "programmed".... how am I programmed... where is the programming coming from... why am I being programmed? This is clearly not a mainstream term when it comes to describing how someone thinks, because it initiate a self awareness that is counter to the efforts of those that seek to program. In short, it's meant to be illuminating, rather than condemning.
WHEN you do use that it makes you look like you are locked into your "theories" of "conspiracy" ,which you have not proven to the satisfaction of the "programmed" .
One thing I can assure you of - I am not locked into any point of view. I can also assure you that I'm not going to accept the reality presented to me by a well polished Media & PR machine, which is expert in techniques of perception management.
As far as proof, well, that's always almost impossible to come by. The problem lies not only in the sophistication of the the perception management machine, but also in the institutionalized programming we've all been subjected to. One thing I've learned in my study of methods of perception management is that human belief systems are irrational & emotional, and therefore logic is not necessarily convincing. In fact, in a highly programmed brain, logic & evidence of a fact that is counter to this programming can create hostile emotional reactions in the subject.
Hence, proof and convincing one of that proof are almost irrelevant in the world of brain wiring & rewiring. It typically takes an emotional event to cause a brain to rewire, such as the Rams getting screwed out of SB36.
IOW FWIW ,you have no standing to complain about people being dismissive when you yourself are.
I think I do a pretty damn good job of being respectful here, even with points of view that are far from the norm. I really don't think I'm dismissive (Except in the case of one poster who I now have on ignore).
In the end even those who voted yes in this poll watch the games in hopes the Rams will win ,you yourself express your devotion to the Rams,devotion to a team that participates in lying to you? about the outcomes we so fervently wish for? devise draft strategies to enhance ,spend hours posting on this board about all the aspects of them down to whether the coach is responsible when we lose , who should be the quarterback ? I can't sell that contradiction to myself .
I don't root for people in soap operas, and if the league was fixed that's all it'd be a glorified soap opera ,so I doubt the complete acceptance of most of those yes votes , their actions as previously mentioned don't indicate a commitment to the conclusion, and neither do yours,you can't separate the Rams from the NFL,if we are being fooled the Rams are the entity we aught to be most upset with for toying with our emotions in the greatest measure ,about a lie.
I know what I'm watching. I think I have a very good understanding of what it is, why it exists, and why it's promoted, and why it is allowed to be manipulated as it is. But I still love the game, the players, the competition, eventhough it is performed within extremely tight constraints. Even within those contraints there are gaps for serendipity, unplanned events that create great excitement.
I also like the poeple here. I like the interchange. This is the only "entertainment" web site I visit. I don't watch TV, read newspapers, or visit facebook, so this is my social outlet.
Finally, I still watch a movie from time to time. So, yeah, it's fun, it's a release. But even with all of that, I probably only watch 1/4 of the games per season now. My attention for it has dropped considerably.