I'm interested in why you take something like a player holdout in the NFL so personally. Do you feel the same towards a team when they cut a player with years & millions left on a contract?
This isn't ever a good comparison.
Players being cut typically speaking do so because they're not helping the team as much as they should. Even if they're helping the team, if they have a really high cap hit, but they're not worth said hit, they might be cut in order to help get better players at said position or others.
You're cutting weak links in order to get better as a whole and help the team.
Players holding out doesn't hurt owners. It doesn't hurt their team value enough to really mean anything, it's not like the owners lose money. The only thing it hurts is the team, and it's something that's unfair to fans. Fans are the reason why Donald gets paid so much, without fans there's no demand, and with no demand, contracts are significantly lower.. That's assuming the league is still there. So when a player holds out the biggest thing they're doing is hurting the fans. Hurting the fans to the point they hope they turn on the team, and thus pressure them into giving in to the players demands. The entire idea of a holdout is to hurt the fans, hurt the team, and hurt their teammates.
That doesn't mean I don't think that Donald doesn't deserve to be paid. He does. What he doesn't deserve is an opt out clause. If that's the case, and he absolutely refuses to sign without one, I say let him sit. Come right out and say "Donald wants a 3 year out clause. We will not do that. He can sign anytime he wants, otherwise we're done. He has a choice now, he can sign and play or retire, because those are his only options."
And I'd support the Rams there.
Now if the Rams are playing stupid games, then I would blame them, but at this point it seems that they're trying. Donald unfortunately has an agent with a reputation of making players do shit like this. If that's the case, that's his own fault. He's the one that has decided to hurt the fans in order to get his pay day. Not the Rams.