All very true. And I appreciate your expertise.
That said, we're seeing every day how courts are making that exception to the hearsay rule less rare, how DV cases are becoming more successfully prosecuted, even for people with money.
And this is the reason the laws were written this way... abusers have no absolute right to "confront" victims. That's a misuse of the 6th amendment. Just as we have no absolute right to free speech, no absolute right to assembly, etc.
When the abuser shows up in court, he IS confronting his accuser... the DA. The victim is not the accuser, so the 6th amendment doesn't apply.
And, as you know, there have been plenty of successful DV prosecutions that have taken no victim testimony, i.e. the woman is unconscious, comatose or catatonic at the time of arrest and subsequent interview(s) deem her unreliable or uncooperative as a witness by the DA. That's not unprecedented.
Now, the sad reality is that Ray McDonald will undoubtedly have VERY expensive representation and will most likely walk with probation because the legal system in this country is the best money can buy. Literally. As you must know better than I, money buys outcomes way more often than not.
However, the NFL won't let that go and the evidence presented will be more than enough to get him the full wrath of the Commissioner. What's real about this is that the lighter the sentence he gets in court, the worse the backlash will be and the harsher the call will be for the harshest possible outcome from the NFL.