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i couldn't imagine touching a woman unless she was reciprocal to the idea. how do all these guys do it? i think the problem is they have no respect for women. there can be no other reason.
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Most often when a guy rapes a girl, or gropes her, there is hope that at some point she will start to like it and actually get into it and reciprocate. I don't think this was the case though.
It's possible Rath is an oversexed dope. He knows this woman, has seen her on several occasions, he thinks she's hot, so he throws out a compliment on her appearance to let her know that he's interested. She acts flattered and he takes it as mutual interest. So then he's at the party without his wife, maybe he talks to her before she goes upstairs, and in his drunken state convinces himself that she was hinting for him to join her. So he wanders upstairs for some fun. Only to find out that his compliment didn't mean anything to her and she was never giving him any indication of wanting to sleep with him.
I knew a guy like that. He was so stupid when it came to women and he misconstrued simple conversation as signals often. He was so horny and uninhibited about it that we made fun of him all the time.
On the other hand my college roommate would black out often when he drank. He'd wake up and urinate on the wall or table and have no recollection of it. It got to where I would not sleep if he was too drunk because I was afraid he'd per on me. It was weird because he'd be talking to me while I would try to wake him up and often steered him toward the bathroom. He'd even be aware of what I did and would thank me for keeping him from peeling on the furniture. Then the next day he'd say I was full of it. To this day he doesn't think he ever did it. He didn't need to do any drugs for it to happen, just beer.
Either way Rath is an ass because he's married and shouldn't be entertaining thoughts about having sex with another woman, much less pursuing it. He also has a dream job that he risked losing because he has the hots for someone. He deserves to go to jail or be fined. The sex offender label is a tough call though. If he actually thought she was interested then that's not predatory. If he didn't care if she was interested, then that was predatory.