I heard and appreciate your answer. I am just trying to read the room.
It’s not an easy call for us. We are big believers in public schools - we work hard to support them and the teachers. I believe very strongly in education - not just for the education but for the social aspects of school.
I find myself wanting to keep them at home because we can. By keeping my 3 at home, it makes it slightly more possible for the school to be safer for the kids who do need to attend in person.
On the other hand, I want what is best for them - and that’s where I struggle. If I’m worrying needlessly, as some people suggest, I don’t want that to negatively impact my kids.
I am hoping my brothers and sisters on this forum can provide me with some guidance - and as I said, I appreciate yours.
Right on,
But again....
I grew up with two teachers in Public Schools
Went to Public School my whole life - until college
I am a strong supporter of Public School system - but what's happening right now is a disaster.
And if you can home school your kids - do it. If not just to pull them out for the year until things settle down.
They'll get a lot done, and get to spend more time together which is equally valuable - one way or another staying at home for 2020-2021 will most definitely be best for them - if they are old enough as you said.
Here is something you may not have considered, and I haven't mentioned:
* One thing Homeschooling does is prep them for University where you are more in control of your life.
In University it's all about being responsible for your own schedule and how you study, which is barely taught in public schools.
It also gives them the freedom to set their schedule and learn how to time manage - which is critical in college.
I don't know how your kids are but most of the kids I know are dying to get out of high school.
And by allowing them the freedom to learn on their own schedule, you sorta take that desire away to be on their own and present that desire for freedom and independence as training for higher education at the University level. And it helps them get a taste of what real life is when you are responsible for your own time - as they will most certainly have to be in college and beyond.
By giving them the freedom and responsibility to make the best use of their times - i.e. to select their accredited curriculums, call their own shots as far as scheduling goes, pacing, breaks, lunches, etc... -- you help train them for what it is truly like to manage oneself as an adult.
What we have found with our kids is that they make mistakes, they think they can coast on a few things and then discover they can't It helps with deadlines and time management - and they eventually make the adjustments, or you have to jump in to help guide them to better plan their time.
It also helps you to allow them to frame up their own career goals but freeing up time for them to pursue things they really want to do without so many external demands from peers. They will still have their friends and just cause they are at home learning doesn't mean that they are cut off from the world. But you will find them focusing on what they love, and that is what you will notice as a parent and what you can encourage them to pursue.
Our daughter is 21 and is taking over for my wife and her company. She is a 21-year-old girl in every sense of the word, but she has such a huge advantage when it comes to what it takes to take over the family business. She is also really well adjusted and a lovely human. Our son opted to take his GED at 15 and opened his own company. It's pretty insane what you will discover. Whereas I am a professional and am all about college and higher education, both of them decided to either be a part of the family business or to create their own business. Both are making money and sustaining their own lifestyles. They don't have to wait 4 plus years in college to start providing for themselves, they realized that, and they took those roads -- and they are 100% happy and well-adjusted humans.
So it might be a nice experiment for you and most of all for them. There are too many pluses in this scenario to ignore.
Make it a 1-year thing and blame the extenuating circumstances of C19.
Now that is my two cents added to the two cents so that is a total of 4 cents!!!!
Anyone....anyone....?
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