There's an estimated 40 billion habitable planets in the Galaxy and 19 sextillion (19 followed by 21 zeros) habitable planets in the observable universe.
Gravity is a theory, we're still expanding on it and there's a lot we still don't know, there's still a lot about physics and our universe we don't know and things are constantly changing as we make new discoveries. It's a big universe and we're only looking at a tiny tiny point of it.
For context, this is the tiny sliver in which we've found most of 7000 planets we have either confirmed or believe we have found but need a little more confirmation.
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Basically we haven't really seen shit, and we've still found 7,000 planets and counting. Imagine looking through your peephole and seeing 7,000 people out front. Probably a safe bet that there's a lot more out there that you're not seeing.
As I commented very early in this thread, these are problems with your argument.
Even for mankind on this earth, aside from the rapid technological development in the last 100 years or so, technology did not radically change in the 2000 years before. Even if you point to 12,000 years ago as the bracketed timeframe where modern humans lived, most of that time we would not know if an interstellar species arrived here unless they wanted us to know.
Our world is only 4.5 billion years old, as compared to the estimated 13.7 billion years for the beginning of it all. Advanced civilizations on other planets could have risen to extreme development and have died before the Earth was even formed. This limits your interstellar number of 7,000 habitable planets which are capable of evolving organisms into advanced lifeforms, probably to zero. I never contested life elsewhere throughout the Cosmos. Increase the number to a million habitable planets for possible intelligent life, does not mean that a single alien species has split the atom, synched with mans development somewhat, etc...Several factors have to align for your alien visitation scenario to mesh.
I don't buy that humanity doesn't have a serious grasp on science ("we haven't seen shit"). We are not talking about the times of Coepernicus, Galilleo, Newton morphing into the times of Einstein, Oppenheimer. More like moving from Einstein to Hawking..We actually know and have serious practical grasp on science which has raced incredibly fast since Einstein. I doubt that there will be world shattering discoveries that will upend Physics, Chemistry, etc... as we know them today. Will knowledge be added to? Yes, of course.
So...to see little green men visit us on Earth
1. Incredibly more advanced species that is capable of instellar travel.
2. Must overcome the Speed of Light...Even the closest planet is 40+ years away with our capabilities (well below the speed of light), one way.
3. Ours and the Alien civilization(s) must be synched for an incredibly tiny slice of time (homo sapien is about 44,000 years old), over 13.7 billion years, AND one has to be aware of the other. This is the biggest obstacle to me.
4. IF they somehow reach us, they have to want something which isn't good news for us. Most likely their version of AI and not biological organisms will step out of the saucer