I've always liked Rath, but he got himself into a messed up situation. But I can't really relate because I haven't been in that situation. I've blown it with more females in closer friendlier more consentual situations than gone off on my own on hunches!
A guy I worked with years back (not a friend, he was a jerk) told me that he had served time in jail (and had to register as a sex offender) because he was at a party in a casino, and he and a woman from the party had gone into a hotel room to mess around, and when her husband discovered them she pointed a finger at my coworker and blamed him. Messed up if true, but like I said he was a jerk, so I didn't 100% believe him. I thought it was messed up if a woman would try to save face by ratting out a guy when it could've been consentual too, I was thinking from all sides of the story. Anyway he got back in jail for violating his probation more recently... hmmm, okay.
There's also a delusions of grandeur complex with some guys that think because a woman smiles and talks to them or even says hi that they even have a chance when the woman is not flirting but merely being friendly just to be cordial. Like in a coworker or friend situation. I worked with a really friendly female coworker recently, and I really liked her for being friendly and cool, but I figured that's just how she was so I didn't take it beyond that. Unfortunately another male coworker took it a little too far with her and she complained to the boss and he was taken into a closed door meeting with the bosses. Yeah she was friendly, cute, and outgoing, but she wasn't trying to hook up with everyone.
Rambling I know... just exploring possibilities for what went on and why. Trying to make sense of what enters someone's thoughts, drunk or not, to where they would attempt something like what Rath is being accused for.
