Stranger said:This is starting to sound like a call for help. Is there no one who knows and cares about this young man who can provide some proper mentoring and guidance?
Sorry guys ,thousands upon thousands of guys with very similar stories exist who never got the chance to play in the NFL,I'll reserve my concern for the guys NOT blessed with ability that gets them a free 4 yr. education (if they utilize it) and a shot at playing a game for pay that millions do for free yadayadayada.shaunpinney said:Stranger said:This is starting to sound like a call for help. Is there no one who knows and cares about this young man who can provide some proper mentoring and guidance?
THIS is what makes the story a sad one... his actions seem to be a cry for help... this story could have a very sad and definite ending unless someone steps in and shows him the way.
That is some cold-hearted shit right there. I guess Rush rubbed-off on you, or, was it the other way around?Thordaddy said:Sorry guys ,thousands upon thousands of guys with very similar stories exist who never got the chance to play in the NFL,I'll reserve my concern for the guys NOT blessed with ability that gets them a free 4 yr. education (if they utilize it) and a shot at playing a game for pay that millions do for free yadayadayada.shaunpinney said:Stranger said:This is starting to sound like a call for help. Is there no one who knows and cares about this young man who can provide some proper mentoring and guidance?
THIS is what makes the story a sad one... his actions seem to be a cry for help... this story could have a very sad and definite ending unless someone steps in and shows him the way.
Put an L on his forehead and get him an interview at Burger King
Thordaddy said:Sorry guys ,thousands upon thousands of guys with very similar stories exist who never got the chance to play in the NFL,I'll reserve my concern for the guys NOT blessed with ability that gets them a free 4 yr. education (if they utilize it) and a shot at playing a game for pay that millions do for free yadayadayada.shaunpinney said:Stranger said:This is starting to sound like a call for help. Is there no one who knows and cares about this young man who can provide some proper mentoring and guidance?
THIS is what makes the story a sad one... his actions seem to be a cry for help... this story could have a very sad and definite ending unless someone steps in and shows him the way.
Put an L on his forehead and get him an interview at Burger King
Stranger said:That is some cold-hearted shyte right there. I guess Rush rubbed-off on you, or, was it the other way around?Thordaddy said:Sorry guys ,thousands upon thousands of guys with very similar stories exist who never got the chance to play in the NFL,I'll reserve my concern for the guys NOT blessed with ability that gets them a free 4 yr. education (if they utilize it) and a shot at playing a game for pay that millions do for free yadayadayada.shaunpinney said:Stranger said:This is starting to sound like a call for help. Is there no one who knows and cares about this young man who can provide some proper mentoring and guidance?
THIS is what makes the story a sad one... his actions seem to be a cry for help... this story could have a very sad and definite ending unless someone steps in and shows him the way.
Put an L on his forehead and get him an interview at Burger King
Sorry, but my heart and compassion is still big enough show empathy for all the people that could use some help, including the bum on the corner that I speak to every wkend, those from the ghetto that can't seem to get out, and x-superstar NFL players who seem to never have been shown "the way"
Bets are and I DO mean BETS, he has had NUMEROUS people try to show him "the way".Stranger said:That is some cold-hearted shit right there. I guess Rush rubbed-off on you, or, was it the other way around?Thordaddy said:Sorry guys ,thousands upon thousands of guys with very similar stories exist who never got the chance to play in the NFL,I'll reserve my concern for the guys NOT blessed with ability that gets them a free 4 yr. education (if they utilize it) and a shot at playing a game for pay that millions do for free yadayadayada.shaunpinney said:Stranger said:This is starting to sound like a call for help. Is there no one who knows and cares about this young man who can provide some proper mentoring and guidance?
THIS is what makes the story a sad one... his actions seem to be a cry for help... this story could have a very sad and definite ending unless someone steps in and shows him the way.
Put an L on his forehead and get him an interview at Burger King
Sorry, but my heart and compassion is still big enough show empathy for all the people that could use some help, including the bum on the corner that I speak to every wkend, those from the ghetto that can't seem to get out, and x-superstar NFL players who seem to never have been shown "the way"
If I had to guess I'd say he's had a life full of people making excuses for him ,and FWIW I don't consider that "helping" the guy.nighttrain said:I have a difficult time with the issue of his sister being with him at the store where he played the fool, is the whole family dysfunctional?
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My BET is he has been surrounded by many dysfunctional people as well as those who sought to exploit him or leverage his talents for their own gain. I severely doubt that anyone has tried to do the right thing for him, only for him.Thordaddy said:Bets are and I DO mean BETS, he has had NUMEROUS people try to show him "the way".Stranger said:That is some cold-hearted shit right there. I guess Rush rubbed-off on you, or, was it the other way around?Thordaddy said:Sorry guys ,thousands upon thousands of guys with very similar stories exist who never got the chance to play in the NFL,I'll reserve my concern for the guys NOT blessed with ability that gets them a free 4 yr. education (if they utilize it) and a shot at playing a game for pay that millions do for free yadayadayada.shaunpinney said:Stranger said:This is starting to sound like a call for help. Is there no one who knows and cares about this young man who can provide some proper mentoring and guidance?
THIS is what makes the story a sad one... his actions seem to be a cry for help... this story could have a very sad and definite ending unless someone steps in and shows him the way.
Put an L on his forehead and get him an interview at Burger King
Sorry, but my heart and compassion is still big enough show empathy for all the people that could use some help, including the bum on the corner that I speak to every wkend, those from the ghetto that can't seem to get out, and x-superstar NFL players who seem to never have been shown "the way"
He didn't drop here on earth able to run a 4.4 forty and get signed to an NFL contract.
NOW IF you want to say something nasty to me because I don't particularly think he's deserving on benefit of the doubt # 652 in his life ,g'head.
You full of concern for the guy? go do something for him ,if "someone needs to" are you "someone" ?go shower the guy with your compassion,you just won't have to wait in line behind me to do it. :ww:
Stranger said:Contrary to all the propaganda, people are not born bad, they have to be shown how to be that way.
Stranger said:My BET is he has been surrounded by many dysfunctional people as well as those who sought to exploit him or leverage his talents for their own gain. I severely doubt that anyone has tried to do the right thing for him, only for him.Thordaddy said:Bets are and I DO mean BETS, he has had NUMEROUS people try to show him "the way".Stranger said:That is some cold-hearted shit right there. I guess Rush rubbed-off on you, or, was it the other way around?Thordaddy said:Sorry guys ,thousands upon thousands of guys with very similar stories exist who never got the chance to play in the NFL,I'll reserve my concern for the guys NOT blessed with ability that gets them a free 4 yr. education (if they utilize it) and a shot at playing a game for pay that millions do for free yadayadayada.shaunpinney said:Stranger said:This is starting to sound like a call for help. Is there no one who knows and cares about this young man who can provide some proper mentoring and guidance?
THIS is what makes the story a sad one... his actions seem to be a cry for help... this story could have a very sad and definite ending unless someone steps in and shows him the way.
Put an L on his forehead and get him an interview at Burger King
Sorry, but my heart and compassion is still big enough show empathy for all the people that could use some help, including the bum on the corner that I speak to every wkend, those from the ghetto that can't seem to get out, and x-superstar NFL players who seem to never have been shown "the way"
He didn't drop here on earth able to run a 4.4 forty and get signed to an NFL contract.
NOW IF you want to say something nasty to me because I don't particularly think he's deserving on benefit of the doubt # 652 in his life ,g'head.
You full of concern for the guy? go do something for him ,if "someone needs to" are you "someone" ?go shower the guy with your compassion,you just won't have to wait in line behind me to do it. :ww:
Contrary to all the propaganda, people are not born bad, they have to be shown how to be that way.
Yes, very true.Memento said:Stranger said:Contrary to all the propaganda, people are not born bad, they have to be shown how to be that way.
Have to disagree somewhat on that part. While I agree that the vast majority of people - and even the vast majority of criminals - aren't born evil, some people are born without a sense of empathy (psychopaths and sociopaths) and it's impossible for them to gain one. They just aren't able to show that awful side of them when they're very young. For example, read this story and the comments below it. I found them all to be quite intriguing:
http://perspectivesandprejudices.wordpress.com/2012/02/10/are-people-born-evil/
Ram Quixote said:Somewhere along the line of people trying to influence him, one of those taught him entitlement.
--His athletic ability entitled him to all sorts of things he didn't deserve yet.
--He was entitled to his skewed opinion of himself.
--An NFL player is entitled to so much more than the average person.
That no one has ever been able to disabuse him of these notions speaks to his level of delusion right now.
There should be middle ground between Thor (most people aren't hopeless) and Stranger (no one but Titus himself is going keep him out of trouble).
Kind a my point. It happened so early that entitlement is ingrained to the point that no one can reach him. Soon, his only friend will be the bottom of the barrel. Time will tell if even that makes a dent in his delusion.LesBaker said:Ram Quixote said:Somewhere along the line of people trying to influence him, one of those taught him entitlement.
--His athletic ability entitled him to all sorts of things he didn't deserve yet.
--He was entitled to his skewed opinion of himself.
--An NFL player is entitled to so much more than the average person.
That no one has ever been able to disabuse him of these notions speaks to his level of delusion right now.
There should be middle ground between Thor (most people aren't hopeless) and Stranger (no one but Titus himself is going keep him out of trouble).
There is middle ground but this guy may have already walked over it. He's been in trouble since high school. Maybe he's just a punk ass who has gotten excused for his turdley demeanor because he can play football real good.
Life isn't fair and he had a HUGE opportunity to tilt the not fair so far in his favor it isn't funny.
He tilted it the other way instead.