Dumb behavior in choosing females. Church is a good place to meet one, but instagram whores and picking them up at clubs is just dumb. You need a calm environment at home not stupid drama. Of course it could be the players who are the drama queens, who knows. If it causes the authorities to get involved then stay away from that person, you're not good for each other. Maybe you're both just awful people, but two awful people doesn't make a good union. Break up. Give up.