The wife and I usually get something together that we need. We're getting a new iMac this year... our current one is having a few issues. We don't really surprise each other with gifts... there might be a little something or 2 that are surprises, but nothing big. We usually upgrade our phones too... I'm getting that new giant Note since my eyesight ain't what it used to be.
We have 3 sons and they are what we focus on during the Holidays. We enjoy spoiling them more than spoiling ourselves. Spending "Family Time" (as I call it) is getting harder and harder for us since my oldest is a college sophomore and my twins are HS juniors with teenage girlfriends. They have way more important things to do in their minds than spending time with us. Hahahaha. But I love the holidays for allowing me to force the Family Time issue. I can't get enough of it.
One "thing" that I will be getting does have me excited though... I'm having Pikes Seafood out in Seattle ship me some of their giant king crab legs. They are so much bigger than what our local seafood stores have. Man those babies are good.
I fry a turkey or 2 in peanut oil for one of the holiday dinners. This is really the only time of year that I fry turkey... I really look forward to that as well.
But,,, my Family Time is what makes me happiest. I can't wait.