I just do not understand myself...... Playing in the NFL! talk about a natural HIGH!
Why would you need anything else to feel good about yourself put in the very hard work to get there & what a wonderful opportunity to earn great money & opportunities to invest that $$ for a good long life of comfort for yourself & love ones?
Why does anyone celebrate an accomplishment, a promotion, winning a case, a big sale ect with some cocktails?
Why does a successful lawyer get a DUI?
Is it a way of dealing with pain? Is it just that he likes to party? Who knows? Doesn't matter. I see no difference with a 25 year old guy smoking weed and watching a movie at home than I do a 50 year old executive coming home and having 5 drinks.
I think he certainly has been stupid. But, how it seems from the outside is almost never how it is on the inside. With a team of 50 + guys, from all different backgrounds, perspectives, ages ect. we all assume everyone loves it and it a dream come true. For some it is and for some it is probably just a job. There can be a lot of pressure from outside sources, particularly for a young person, who is in the public eye making money (maybe perceived as being "rich" by people around them when that is not the case) and expectation to perform to earn the next contract.
I am not making excuses for Bailey, but, I just think it is unfair to try and crawl inside someones head. We don't know whats going on with him.
I am basing this on two NFL players I knew back in the day and a current friend that was a first round MLB draft pick. For all of them it was a mixed bag. Excitement, a dream come true, pressure, injuries, pain and a lot of other stuff.