As a high school and youth official that works umpire, yes that’s where we’re positioned . It’s not Sunday football, I’ll shed perspective.
Nobody has any idea what the player said to the official. And judging by the player’s body language, words were exchanged and it appeared they were aimed at pushing buttons. I have no idea the past history, prior conversations this game, etc.
Second, the umpire was out of position. Instincts tell you to drop back when you see pass pro, but that’s not correct. Umpires should climb the pocket. ROD, any guesses why? I’ll let you all figure this out.
Perhaps this could have been avoided. I can’t say for certain. Yes the ump spots the ball and enforces penalties. However, the most important role of the umpire is to be heard and talk to players who need to hear your voice. This is how you prevent penalties.