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The traditional "American dream" is more complicated than just "if you work hard, you will succeed" that people tend to say it is. There are tons of very smart very hard working people who never "make it", far more than those who do. Which is why we make such a big deal of those who do make it from poor to rich, move up in a way. Far more often people end up moving down. A lot of success comes from being born with certain things being available for you, education, funds to get things off the ground, etc. The vast majority of people do not have these available to them for them to really move up, which is why most people maintain a livable salary and not much more. Plenty of people who do have those available try and fail, which moves them down, often for good.
In terms of quality of life, those of us born in the western world have pretty much already hit the jackpot. There's a lot more than just working hard to going from rags to riches, even athletes are often groomed from a young age that allows them to get to the top of their craft. There's a lot of luck that goes into it, which is why in a lot of ways it's a farce. It is sold to us so we have more incentive to work hard, Americans are more focused on the future compared to a lot of other nations. A lot of things that Americans do, they do so because tomorrow it might pay off, and it works for the country because we work much harder for the same or less that other nations work for. That's why many international companies like to hire Americans, they'll do more work for the same pay, because its bred into us.
Its not a bad thing, necessarily though.
You are welcome to your opinion but that is all it is.
I have seen and experienced bot ends of this equation. People born with the proverbial silver spoon that blew it all because they did not have the ambition to work for anything as well as people who lived in rooms with dirt floors and very little education who through their hard work were able to lift their families from poverty.
If you are born or naturalized in America you can better your financial situation if you work for it. Of course there are hurdles for everyone, that is why you have to work hard.
And just like you, it is only my experience and my opinion.