Living With Guilt

[grease]

You seem to be experiencing both? Only you can answer it honestly. If cheating isn't the cause then perhaps staying friends will help? Good luck.

 

[Flipper_336]

Thanks for all the concern, guys. It's much appreciated.

 

[LesBaker]

Thanks for all the concern, guys. It's much appreciated.

Still hating yourself Flip?

One day yer gonna wake up with a clear and clean mind........and you will say to yourself that you are doing well.

 

[Flipper_336]

It's still not easy, Les, but things do feel a bit better than they were a month ago. Time is the greatest healer, although we can never completely forget the past.

 

[LesBaker]

I have a suggestion you may not like.

Reach out to her and be friends. It's worth it.......

 

[Flipper_336]

Already tried that. She refused point blank.

 

[LesBaker]

Already tried that. She refused point blank.

Don't give up too easily though.......maybe she needs to heal more.

 

[grease]

Good advice. Wish I had thought of it.

 

[RamsFan14]

Already tried that. She refused point blank.

If you sincerely apologized and offered to be friends with her, then you can at least say you tried to make something out of a bad situation. Sometimes people just need to get away for awhile before they want to talk again (based on my experiences). Or sometimes they just want to move on from the situation as a whole, it really depends on the girl. I figure for most people that it's really tough to move on from someone you've liked for a long time, even after about a month or two without talking. But it really depends on the personality of the person, maybe it's not bad for them. Can't say.

In any case man, if you apologized from the bottom of your heart and made a good effort to try and be friends again, that's all you can really ask for. It's not easy to deal with forsure, but I'd hope I'd be able to sleep at night knowing I tried everything I could in my power to try and make a solid friendship after a big debacle. It's not easy, but you tried man. Sometimes they need time, and sometimes it might be best to move on. Experiences can make us better people, so hang in there and look at the big picture so you learn form it.

Glad to know you are doing better, keep your head up! Things will get better!

 

[Flipper_336]

Thanks, RF14. I tried; can't really do much more than that.

 

[LesBaker]

Good advice. Wish I had thought of it.

Yup I missed that lol. At least it really is good advice.

 

[LesBaker]

Thanks, RF14. I tried; can't really do much more than that.

Be patient and try again. Maybe send a note or an email to help clarify and restate your intentions to be amicable.

I hate seeing two people that were in love end up enemies......it happens too often.

 

[Flipper_336]

There isn't any animosity on either side; she has just decided that it's be better to sever all links and I respect her enough to honour that decision.

Anyway, things will get better in the end; they always do.