Me, I'd go to Alaska. The money is better, which makes for better retirement, living, etc, and while it's further away from family, with internet and airplanes, it's not like I'd never be able to see or talk to my family. Plus Alaska would be fun to the adventure, and you'll get the northern lights, which is awesome.
However essentially my entire family lives overseas, so I don't mind being away from them, I already am. I talk to them plenty, but I saw most of them for the first time in over 10 years when I went back last summer. Plus military deployments and such helped get me used to being far away and not being able to talk to family very much, so I have a different mindset about a lot of these things. To me the desire to see new things and have adventures is bigger than my desire to be close to family. My girlfriend's entire family lives in St Louis, one side literally all live in the same neighborhood (one of the brothers is rich, bought a huge plot of land and built a bunch of houses on it for everyone), I can't imagine being like that, but to them they are all for it, to them being closer to family is more important. I also don't have children or anything either, so that changes things a lot too.