I have a friend who has had a tragic childhood and was brought up surrounded by an extended family of drug abusers. He's 35 now and out of the city. He used to be part of my PCC crew. I recently sold him a car for a few hundred dollars. Well below market value to help him out because he was doing great holding down a job and his car was junk. Within a week I get a call telling me the car was impounded and he was in jail. He drove 45 minutes to argue with his ex girlfriend from five years ago. He was drunk too. He was in jail and violated probation. Unbelievable. I often think of him when I read these domestic cases. Many of these players likely grew up around the same crap living in bad areas of some city. Maybe they watched their Moms get beaten. Some guys learn from others mistakes and some are just destined not to. Its hard to comprehend how they can knowingly screw up their reputation and livelihood over this stuff.