Brandon Staley: a genuinely good guy

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The more I hear him talk about stuff the more I'm impressed with him. Such a thoughtful, kind, and genuine sounding guy. The world needs more Brandon Staley's and I will cheer hard for him to continue having success.


In a perfect world, Brandon Staley will be the coach the Chargers franchise has been searching for for nearly its entire existence. He'll finally get the team back to the Super Bowl, and even win it.

It may not happen this year, especially since it's been over 30 years since a rookie head coach won the Super Bowl, and George Seifert's 49ers still had Joe Montana and Jerry Rice. It may not happen next year.

But if Staley has success, it will hopefully lead to the NFL — a league that has a well-earned reputation as a copycat club, with varying success — taking notice and promoting more coaches like Staley. Because if he is who he appears to be, Staley, or at least his approach, should be what team owners and general managers are looking for in their head coaches.

He provided another example of why on Sunday, after Los Angeles' 41-22 win over the Cincinnati Bengals, when he told reporters that while star defensive end Joey Bosa had been cleared by the team's medical staff after undergoing a concussion evaluation in the first quarter, Staley kept Bosa out of the game because of Bosa's history with brain injury.

"As long as I'm the head coach here, we're going to be making decisions like that in the best interest of our players. He was cleared of a concussion, so that's good news," Staley said.

Bosa had two concussions last season alone and has talked publicly about how they affected him mentally, and while he may have been good enough to go back onto the field Sunday, the cumulative effects of brain injuries can be debilitating in the short and long term. Staley was looking out for his player.

It's the pessimist in me, and the fact that I've followed the NFL for well over a decade, to wonder if Staley debated changing his mind and reinserting Bosa after the third quarter, after the Bengals had cut a 24-0 Chargers lead to 24-22.

It's worth giving him the benefit of the doubt, particularly with prior evidence showing that he might be exactly who he purports himself to be.

A 38-year-old who rose from Division III defensive coordinator to NFL head coach in just five years, Staley gained notoriety in October when he gave a detailed answer about the importance of the run game: how it helps a quarterback, how it helps the offense overall, how it brings a physical dimension to a game by forcing the defense to play blocks and tackle.

It was an early sign of how Staley was different. Where some coaches can guard tactical information like state secrets, trying to convince us that being informative is a detriment to their own cause of winning, Staley doesn't take that tack.

A week later, Staley became the rare coach to show support for players when it comes to this year's renewed emphasis on taunting. "I don't have a perfect answer, I just know it's tough on these players. It's tough on them," he said. "They have a really, really difficult job, and it's a game that's based off the energy and emotion of competition. ... I think it's very challenging. I really do. My side is with the players, always."

Those answers and others also show a respect for the media that not all coaches share, either. Regardless of what you think of your favorite team's beat writers, they are professionals who by and large are doing their best to deliver as much information as possible to their respective audiences, and being brusque with them does a disservice to the fans. Staley comes by his respect for media honestly: One of his first jobs was as an agate clerk at a small newspaper in his native Ohio, where the sports editor was the father of one of his high school football teammates.

Staley has embraced analytics, and after a successful conversion against Cincinnati, the Chargers are 13-for-21 on fourth-down tries this year. Staley has said that analytics help coaches make better decisions, while acknowledging that they won't make perfect decisions every time.

Most refreshing were Staley's comments on Jon Gruden after Gruden resigned in late October over a cache of emails in which he spewed hate toward pretty much every group of humans that aren't straight white men.

Staley said nothing about Gruden. He offered no support for the now-former coach from his own division, no pithy words about what a shame it was that Gruden did what he did, or some such. No, Staley spoke about the victims, and spoke volumes in fewer than 300 words.

"I think this is what I think about it: I think that respect and trust in this world are really, really difficult to achieve. And I think about all of the people that were affected by those emails, whether you’re a person of color, your gender, or your sexual orientation. The people that were affected by those emails, that’s who I’m thinking about, because it’s a sacred mantle for someone to call you ‘coach’ or for someone to call you a leader.

"And trust is really, really hard to achieve in this world. It’s really, really challenging to achieve, and especially with people with those groups that I just mentioned. People are really guarded and they’re skeptical of people because of emails like that. And I just think that kindness and lifting people up, and respecting people you don’t know, I just think that’s such a big part of our thing here, is listening to people and learning about people because I think that what you’ll discover is that we have so much more in common than not.

"And I think that for someone like me, it’s just incumbent upon you to set the example every single day so that people that were talked about in those emails don’t need to feel that way. They shouldn’t feel that way. Hopefully, all of us can learn from this, that it’s about bringing people together for me so that people can become the people that they dream about.

"And I think that for me, leading this football team and being someone — hopefully we can be a light for those people in those emails, that not everybody is like that. There’s far more people that will love you than the opposite. And hopefully, this will be a chance for everybody to come together instead of going apart."

In a league where just getting an owner, head coach or front office executive to acknowledge that Black lives actually have value has proven difficult, Staley's words were bracing.

They aren't just words. Staley shows his values in a more tangible way too. His coaching staff is one of the more diverse in the league, and not just the typical position coaches we usually see. Two of his three coordinators are Black, and Mayur Chaudhari, one of only two Indian-Americans coaching in the NFL, is assistant special teams coach.

What all this points to is someone who generally seems like a human being who gets it. Maybe it's partly because of Staley's heartbreaking experiences with cancer. He battled Hodgkin's lymphoma when he was just 24 years old, while his father, a two-time survivor, was first diagnosed when he was in elementary school. His mother was diagnosed with breast cancer when Staley and his twin brother were 12 and she fought for a decade before succumbing to the disease.

In a perfect world, it wouldn't take all that to give someone perspective. But it played a big role in shaping Staley into the man we see now. We can only hope there are more NFL coaches like him in the future.
 

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That’s a tough call, Bosa should be happy someone looked out for him.
 

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I'm still pissed he bailed on us before our playoff game last year, and we ended up with Morris.
 

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I'm still pissed he bailed on us before our playoff game last year, and we ended up with Morris.
Yeah it just did not look like the same team against Green Bay even if Donald was hurt.

It looked like he was just going thru the motions or he was working with other teams open coaching positions that he didn't take the time to study up on Green Bay
 

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Yeah it just did not look like the same team against Green Bay even if Donald was hurt.

It looked like he was just going thru the motions or he was working with other teams open coaching positions that he didn't take the time to study up on Green Bay

Exactly, he was studying for his HC interview, instead of the opponent at hand.
 

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Exactly, he was studying for his HC interview, instead of the opponent at hand.
He had his interviews on Sunday. On video. After the Seahawks win. You’d think he’d have been distracted for *that* game if this angle had merit.
 

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He had his interviews on Sunday. On video. After the Seahawks win. You’d think he’d have been distracted for *that* game if this angle had merit.

A real coach that wanted to win, would have already been watching film on Green Bay instead of talking to other teams. I hope the rules change in the future, so in the playoffs our coaches don't get poached before a game.
 

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A real coach that wanted to win, would have already been watching film on Green Bay instead of talking to other teams. I hope the rules change in the future, so in the playoffs our coaches don't get poached before a game.
Okay.
Dimes to dollars he did start looking at tape that day. He took a few hours to interview on video calls.
I think the idea that he gave less than he could have is kind of silly, but that’s me.
 

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Okay.
Dimes to dollars he did start looking at tape that day. He took a few hours to interview on video calls.
I think the idea that he gave less than he could have is kind of silly, but that’s me.

The results of the next game speak for themselves. Didn't look like our normal defense.
 

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Oh.

Yeah, I’m sure the 4 hours lead to that.

You win, he only put four hours preparing for his interview. I'm also sure there were no other teams he was preparing for interviews for. Had no effect on our playoff game. They played just like the number one defense from previously all year.
 

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You win, he only put four hours preparing for his interview. I'm also sure there were no other teams he was preparing for interviews for. Had no effect on our playoff game. They played just like the number one defense from previously all year.
I’ve read up on this process and listened to interviews on this.. these guys are updating their “book” for their next opportunity constantly.
He interviewed the day after the Seattle win. You think he should’ve been prepping for Green Bay before the Seattle game?
Also, these guys have teams doing the interview prep for them. This is high end real estate.
Again.. how did those 4 hours impact the next game?
Maybe Aaron Donald being hurt played a role?
Maybe the Rams just got out schemed.. like the Pats D did to the Rams offense.
 

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I’ve read up on this process and listened to interviews on this.. these guys are updating their “book” for their next opportunity constantly.
He interviewed the day after the Seattle win. You think he should’ve been prepping for Green Bay before the Seattle game?
Also, these guys have teams doing the interview prep for them. This is high end real estate.
Again.. how did those 4 hours impact the next game?
Maybe Aaron Donald being hurt played a role?
Maybe the Rams just got out schemed.. like the Pats D did to the Rams offense.

Wow, so he interviewed after the Seattle game, and also before the Seattle game. But he only took four hours in total to even think about the interview, because he did all the research constantly throughout the season. He must have a book ready for a prospective interview with each NFL team then, so he could properly interview for the Squatters in particular, and tell management how he would use each player, and what his vision for the future of that team was. But I guess it was easy, he could just have his "team" of people do all the prep for him, and he could be 100% focused on Green Bay, minus the four hours of time. Sounds plausible enough.
 

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Staley certainly speaks well on his feet, and does come across genuine.

Glad he is in the AFC.

Too early to say what his longevity looks like with the Chargers... But he's off to good start.
 

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Staley certainly speaks well on his feet, and does come across genuine.

Glad he is in the AFC.

Too early to say what his longevity looks like with the Chargers... But he's off to good start.
also doesn't hurt that Staley has one of the better young QB's in the game.....
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also doesn't hurt that Staley has one of the better young QB's in the game.....
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Yeah, good point. Might be one of the best right now.

I grabbed this from his bio. Staley a former QB too.

Staley went to the University of Dayton and started two years at QB for the Flyers guiding the team to a 16-5 record from 2003-2004.[4] He finished his playing career at Mercyhurst College, playing on the football team in 2005