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Female Ego Boosting!?
Okay, few things REALLY bother me for a long period of time. I get over things like THAT. Snap my fingers and I can become indifferent to it. A blessing and a curse as it can lead to me cutting people out of my life way too easily.
Anyhoot.
I have a question for my fellow man. What the fuck is up with female ego boosting? Ever been used as the prop/drug that's injected directly into the female's brain to make themselves feel better about well....themselves?
By that, I'm going to give you a story.
So, there's a girl that's been in my Anatomy class. First for Spring, now for Summer. Started off generally friendly. Then, for the last several weeks, but probably it's been more like say, 2-3 months or so, flirting. It starts off silly banter light. Then it gets heavier to the point of:
1. sexual buckets lists shared
2. sexual fantasies shared
3. bantering back and forth with funny song lyrics and intimate song lyrics
4. a chinese tickle contest bet
5. making fun of 50 Shades of Shit and saying I could write a smutty satirical parody better than that shit (I did lmao. And she read it. Those who've seen "The Other Guys" will kinda get the reasoning behind it.)
6. yadda, yadda, yadda, more truth divulging flirtation, though I should have realized at this point my truth was greatly outweighing hers. I'm smart, not wise. Sue me.
Now, it gets to the point that #4 is actually planned. She's gonna come over and what not. And come "blacked out" as she calls it. Short black athletic shorts, black mid socks, maybe black eyeliner.
Now, to skip ahead on some flirting banter I'll spare your poor souls from, and skipping ahead to the "after the fact moment" she admits that well....sex, kissing, groping, getting in on, was a distinct possibility that this "tickle contest" could lead to.
NOW for the kicker.
I learn she's still seeing some dude that their relationship has entered the dreaded "it's complicated" HS level of bullshit.
I basically try calling her out on her BS (though admittedly vaguely). I flirt a bit more just to see how she responds. She basically just soaks up the flirting. Doesn't say a thing about it or how she views it.
Then boom. Out of the blue, officially FZed, by way of "I guess I just view it as friends," text. Now, in hindsight, a definite good thing as she now seems batty (but damned if I'm still not attracted to her. Fuck chemistry and biology) given her "it's complicated thing while flirting hard core with me. So....
Women....
Can't live with them. Can't live without them. Or can you!?
Seriously, it isn't the not working out thing that pisses me off. It's the being used as a prop for what seems clearly to be an ego boost because her own fucked up relationship is on the frits.
Anyone else experience this BS? I mean, sure the game can be fun, but not when it's rigged.
It's like Tom Brady deflated my own balls.
I mean, who gets off on using people like that?
Also, "just friends" doesn't really fly when you've known the person only a handful of months, and start sharing sexual bucket lists and fantasies with said friend from the opposite gender, halfway into the time period you've known said person. Nope. Don't believe it. And here's the kicker, I got a sexual fantasy out of her that she apparently hasn't shared with anyone.
Well, shit, son. That's probably a fat lie right there.
Anyway, that's my rant. @Mojo Ram had an online dating thread of being conned by phonies.
This is my rant of being conned of real life phonies you interact with everyday.
LESSON LEARNED FOLKS!
Beware the females that are only 3 years out of their teens, at least in this day and age. Totally and utterly clueless......or self-serving as shit.
But what can one expect in this hideous world of "selfies."
*And now I seem like a cantankerous old man calling out the youth.*
Okay, few things REALLY bother me for a long period of time. I get over things like THAT. Snap my fingers and I can become indifferent to it. A blessing and a curse as it can lead to me cutting people out of my life way too easily.
Anyhoot.
I have a question for my fellow man. What the fuck is up with female ego boosting? Ever been used as the prop/drug that's injected directly into the female's brain to make themselves feel better about well....themselves?
By that, I'm going to give you a story.
So, there's a girl that's been in my Anatomy class. First for Spring, now for Summer. Started off generally friendly. Then, for the last several weeks, but probably it's been more like say, 2-3 months or so, flirting. It starts off silly banter light. Then it gets heavier to the point of:
1. sexual buckets lists shared
2. sexual fantasies shared
3. bantering back and forth with funny song lyrics and intimate song lyrics
4. a chinese tickle contest bet
5. making fun of 50 Shades of Shit and saying I could write a smutty satirical parody better than that shit (I did lmao. And she read it. Those who've seen "The Other Guys" will kinda get the reasoning behind it.)
6. yadda, yadda, yadda, more truth divulging flirtation, though I should have realized at this point my truth was greatly outweighing hers. I'm smart, not wise. Sue me.
Now, it gets to the point that #4 is actually planned. She's gonna come over and what not. And come "blacked out" as she calls it. Short black athletic shorts, black mid socks, maybe black eyeliner.
Now, to skip ahead on some flirting banter I'll spare your poor souls from, and skipping ahead to the "after the fact moment" she admits that well....sex, kissing, groping, getting in on, was a distinct possibility that this "tickle contest" could lead to.
NOW for the kicker.
I learn she's still seeing some dude that their relationship has entered the dreaded "it's complicated" HS level of bullshit.
I basically try calling her out on her BS (though admittedly vaguely). I flirt a bit more just to see how she responds. She basically just soaks up the flirting. Doesn't say a thing about it or how she views it.
Then boom. Out of the blue, officially FZed, by way of "I guess I just view it as friends," text. Now, in hindsight, a definite good thing as she now seems batty (but damned if I'm still not attracted to her. Fuck chemistry and biology) given her "it's complicated thing while flirting hard core with me. So....
Women....
Can't live with them. Can't live without them. Or can you!?
Seriously, it isn't the not working out thing that pisses me off. It's the being used as a prop for what seems clearly to be an ego boost because her own fucked up relationship is on the frits.
Anyone else experience this BS? I mean, sure the game can be fun, but not when it's rigged.
It's like Tom Brady deflated my own balls.
I mean, who gets off on using people like that?
Also, "just friends" doesn't really fly when you've known the person only a handful of months, and start sharing sexual bucket lists and fantasies with said friend from the opposite gender, halfway into the time period you've known said person. Nope. Don't believe it. And here's the kicker, I got a sexual fantasy out of her that she apparently hasn't shared with anyone.
Well, shit, son. That's probably a fat lie right there.
Anyway, that's my rant. @Mojo Ram had an online dating thread of being conned by phonies.
This is my rant of being conned of real life phonies you interact with everyday.
LESSON LEARNED FOLKS!
Beware the females that are only 3 years out of their teens, at least in this day and age. Totally and utterly clueless......or self-serving as shit.
But what can one expect in this hideous world of "selfies."
*And now I seem like a cantankerous old man calling out the youth.*
