Matthew Stafford's wife regrets saying Rams quarterback struggles to connect with younger players

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Matthew Stafford's wife regrets saying Rams quarterback struggles to connect with younger players​

Kelly Stafford said it was 'probably the worst thing I've ever done'​

Kelly Stafford, the wife of Los Angeles Rams quarterback Matthew Stafford, regrets saying her husband is having trouble connecting with the younger players in his locker room.

Stafford spoke with Local 4 Detroit’s Christy McDonald on "A Conversation With," saying her comments about her husband were "probably the worst thing I’ve done when it comes to him."

"That was tough," she said. "I say all the time, probably not the best if your wife’s name is in the media, if it’s talking about sports. I felt pretty bad last week. I put my foot in my mouth pretty good last week."

Stafford still feels it’s a "relatable" topic but likely didn’t anticipate the national headlines she created.

"I spoke on a topic that I think, it’s relatable, to the fact that it’s hard to relate to someone who is ten years younger than you," she explained. "And I do think that’s entirely true. But I’m not in an NFL locker room. I’m not spending every day with these teammates."

It was on her podcast, "The Morning After With Kelly Stafford," where she revealed her husband, a Super Bowl-champion quarterback with the Rams, told her he struggled connecting with certain players in the locker room.

"In the old days, you'd come out of practice, you'd shower, people would be playing cards, people would be interacting," Kelly Stafford said based on what her husband has told her. "Who knows what they're doing, but they're doing something together. They’re playing Ping-Pong, they have a tournament going on. They're at least talking. He said now they get done with practice or get done with meetings during training camp, and they go straight to their phones.

"No one looks up from their phones. Matthew's like, 'I don't know ... am I the dad? Do I take the phones? What do I do here?' And he's like, ‘I want them to see me not as a coach.’"

Kelly Stafford also revealed the younger players refer to her husband as "sir" when they speak to him, and he doesn’t like it.

"He's like, 'No, we're on the same level here, we're both playing in this league. Let me get to know you.' He said it's so different and so hard to get to know these guys," she said.

Kelly also mentioned her husband had a book printed with each player’s name and face in hopes the quarterback can build a relationship with them — on the field at least.

"I think nowadays it's really hard to develop that because all these young kids, they don't care. Or it's not that they don't care, but they're so used to going straight to their phones instead of having some fun with some guys in the locker room. It's just different. It's kind of sad," Kelly Stafford said.

Stafford is 35 years old entering his 15th season as a quarterback in the NFL after initially being drafted first overall out of Georgia by the Detroit Lions in 2009. He delivered a 74-90-1 record over 12 seasons in Detroit before moving to the Rams, where he won the Super Bowl in his first season with the team in 2021.
 

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Well, to be fair to the younger players, I always say, "Sir", "Ma'am", and other titles as a sign of respect for...well, pretty much anyone unless told otherwise. It's how I was taught, and it's likely how these younger players were taught by their parents as well.
 

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I'm thinking Matt had a little chat with her about something that shouldn't have been said outside the home.
 

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Shes a wonderful wife and mother by all accounts but I wish she would let Matthew speak for himself.
 

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Never too late to learn and have a little crow with that.
Surely, we will all get through this - and it sounds like she will as well. Good on 'ya!
And, "sir" and "ma'am" are typically signs of respect... I did it in the Navy - but they made me!!
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She should be baking cookies and giving Matt Bj's. Not doing podcasts.
I guess Stafford should of held a press conference and stated, he has no trouble connecting with younger women. I don't think Kelly needs to be baking cookies and I think she was being transparent, but she needs to understand, it's not Detroit, it's Los Angeles.
 

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She needs to just STFU.
I don't know if I'd go that far, but I wonder what good comes from an NFL wife doing a podcast? People obviously listen for juicy gossip and inside info about the team....
 

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I wonder how the locker room is reacting to this "news" and whether it is a distraction.
 

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I don't know if I'd go that far, but I wonder what good comes from an NFL wife doing a podcast? People obviously listen for juicy gossip and inside info about the team....
She should do her podcast if she likes just keep the team out of it.
 

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She's a glory hound. This isnt the first time she's pretty much stuck her foot in her mouth.
 

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I guess it's just me not understanding things people choose to care about these days. Maybe I'm becoming too apathetic in my old age lol. Seems like such a pointless thing for people to get riled up about... but I swear I say that to myself every day at least a couple of times about something people are complaining about in the world.
 

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I don't listen to her podcast.

Probably best to keep Mathews's interactions with teammates private but, her comments did start some conversation on generational differences.

In the end, everyone moves on to the next thing.