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I'm not saying where, but I see a lot of different people getting all indignant about Jenkins' off-the-field issues. Personally, I could give a shit what he did to get himself in trouble. And trouble is going to be the operative word here. He got in a bar fight and got tazed, and he got busted for weed twice. His kids with different mothers is a different *issue*. Here's where I fall on it.
1. I've done the same things and more. I've been arrested for drunk and disorderly, mayhem, assault, failure to appear, DWI, outstanding warrant (during a routine traffic stop), and of course possession of a controlled substance (weed). Thankfully I've never been tazed, because that shit looks like it hurts. All of this happened to me between the ages of 17 and 28. I don't have any explanation for any of it, and I certainly am not blaming anyone other than myself. That said, I grew up in an abusive household. I only say that because after being in and out of programs, I'm told that accounts for something. Still; it was all me, and in retrospect it's not surprising that people didn't think I was any good. Once I got into a caring environment, I turned things around and got myself under control. I think he's going into an environment similar to that, but at the same time, he's going into a lifestyle that almost promotes the things he's trying to escape (see Big Ben).
2. I don't care what a guy does with his sex life. If he sleeps with a bunch of women and uses no protection, then whatever. Irresponsible, but I'm SURE he's not unique in that regard. The only problem I see is that he *could have been* in a position to father a bunch of kids and have no means to provide for them. That's the only thing that would have bothered me, but not so much that I need to be all righteous about it. It's not my life; it's his. One could point to that kind of behavior being a contributor to the downfall of society, but this isn't the thread for that. You know where to start that discussion.
To wrap this up, I'm not bothered by it. I see it as just being a kid and not having the support structure many of the more "righteous people" were privileged enough to grow up with. That includes people from every economic rank in our society. There are under-privileged kids that have strong families, and sometimes the well-to-do have kids that are abject nightmares. It all depends on your support growing up. Anyway. If I see one more person say "a leopard can't change his spots", I'm going to puke. The only real thing that bothers me about Janoris Jenkins is having to listen to people who figure they're better people than he will ever be. That's nonsense.
And again, this isn't about how he'll affect the Rams if he doesn't change. This is just about his past.
1. I've done the same things and more. I've been arrested for drunk and disorderly, mayhem, assault, failure to appear, DWI, outstanding warrant (during a routine traffic stop), and of course possession of a controlled substance (weed). Thankfully I've never been tazed, because that shit looks like it hurts. All of this happened to me between the ages of 17 and 28. I don't have any explanation for any of it, and I certainly am not blaming anyone other than myself. That said, I grew up in an abusive household. I only say that because after being in and out of programs, I'm told that accounts for something. Still; it was all me, and in retrospect it's not surprising that people didn't think I was any good. Once I got into a caring environment, I turned things around and got myself under control. I think he's going into an environment similar to that, but at the same time, he's going into a lifestyle that almost promotes the things he's trying to escape (see Big Ben).
2. I don't care what a guy does with his sex life. If he sleeps with a bunch of women and uses no protection, then whatever. Irresponsible, but I'm SURE he's not unique in that regard. The only problem I see is that he *could have been* in a position to father a bunch of kids and have no means to provide for them. That's the only thing that would have bothered me, but not so much that I need to be all righteous about it. It's not my life; it's his. One could point to that kind of behavior being a contributor to the downfall of society, but this isn't the thread for that. You know where to start that discussion.
To wrap this up, I'm not bothered by it. I see it as just being a kid and not having the support structure many of the more "righteous people" were privileged enough to grow up with. That includes people from every economic rank in our society. There are under-privileged kids that have strong families, and sometimes the well-to-do have kids that are abject nightmares. It all depends on your support growing up. Anyway. If I see one more person say "a leopard can't change his spots", I'm going to puke. The only real thing that bothers me about Janoris Jenkins is having to listen to people who figure they're better people than he will ever be. That's nonsense.
And again, this isn't about how he'll affect the Rams if he doesn't change. This is just about his past.