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- The Dude
STOP.
Introspection time.
Eh. Some of you will get the reference. Seriously though, I want to ask a question (or two) that requires people to really look within themselves to come up with an answer. And it's gonna be difficult to do, I think. Because quite honestly, I don't even know the answer when I ask it of myself.
So ... the question is this. What makes you, as a fan of the Rams, want to defend a specific player (to the death) against other fans of the Rams who feel it incumbent upon them to criticize that same player? And CONVERSELY, what makes you, as a fan of the Rams, want to criticize one player of the team, while being offended by the criticism of the one you like to defend? I've seen Gibson derided by people who get offended by Bradford criticisms, and I've seen Bradford derided by people who get offended by Gibson criticism.
Is it the WAY people criticize that makes you take offense and become deeply ingrained in your position?
Is it that you feel people just don't see what you see?
Is it because the guy you defend is a really good guy (in general)?
Is it because some people refuse to validate a different opinion?
Just curious. I'll probably think about it some more and come up with my own reasons later, but for now I'm curious about this net-wide phenomenon that turns boards into shit houses. And, in case you weren't already aware, this board is not one that tolerates arguments going beyond the subject matter and into personal attacks. An easy way to know when you're about to violate TOS around here is when you have to use the word "you" (or any variation thereof) in a debate. That's when you're making a point about the poster, and not the post.
Introspection time.
Eh. Some of you will get the reference. Seriously though, I want to ask a question (or two) that requires people to really look within themselves to come up with an answer. And it's gonna be difficult to do, I think. Because quite honestly, I don't even know the answer when I ask it of myself.
So ... the question is this. What makes you, as a fan of the Rams, want to defend a specific player (to the death) against other fans of the Rams who feel it incumbent upon them to criticize that same player? And CONVERSELY, what makes you, as a fan of the Rams, want to criticize one player of the team, while being offended by the criticism of the one you like to defend? I've seen Gibson derided by people who get offended by Bradford criticisms, and I've seen Bradford derided by people who get offended by Gibson criticism.
Is it the WAY people criticize that makes you take offense and become deeply ingrained in your position?
Is it that you feel people just don't see what you see?
Is it because the guy you defend is a really good guy (in general)?
Is it because some people refuse to validate a different opinion?
Just curious. I'll probably think about it some more and come up with my own reasons later, but for now I'm curious about this net-wide phenomenon that turns boards into shit houses. And, in case you weren't already aware, this board is not one that tolerates arguments going beyond the subject matter and into personal attacks. An easy way to know when you're about to violate TOS around here is when you have to use the word "you" (or any variation thereof) in a debate. That's when you're making a point about the poster, and not the post.