i lost my job a while back and while struggling to find a new one I had to think cheap. So instead of looking how much something cost in dollars, I started looking at what it cost in time. For even number sake, say you make $10/hour. And you want to buy a new Blu-Ray. Is that movie worth 2 hours of your time? It worked for me to help save a lot of money and prioritize.
My nephew had a lot of problems as a young man so I moved him in with me, gave him a job, and took him under my wing. Your strategy was the first thing I taught him. I let him do his thing spending money as normal and then I started calling him on the job:
Me: Hey, Nephew, you remember that coke, sandwich, chips and gum you bought at the convenience store today instead of the grocery store in quantity and making your own?
Him: Yeah.
Me: Your work so far today was enough to pay it off.
Click.
Me: Hey, Nephew, you remember how you went out to a bar last Friday instead of cooking your girl dinner and buying a bottle of wine and some beer?
Him: Yeah.
Me: Your work so far this week was enough to pay it off.
Click.
It didn't take long for him to start asking ahead how to save money on things he wanted.
My best pro tip for getting great things for next to nothing is to combine great patience with LOCAL auctions. I clean up. I have bought $500 brand new in box patio sets for $50. I got the largest motorized electric Razor scooter they make for $47.
Even my wife can't bitch. Half of our belongings were auction, craigslist, or goodwill. Nothing brings me more joy financially then people oooohing and aaaahing over something I paid next to nothing for. She now hands me lists of what to be on the look out for and has stopped buying retail except clothes.